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OA's avatar

The moment is all we have, the past and the present really shouldn’t matter much in the grand scheme of things because they are outside your control.

Thanks for this insightful read, a king was not born though 🙏🏽

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Osas's avatar

A king is about to be born in a few days

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Abbie's avatar

This is exact thing has happened to me before and mine was from someone I know very well

This guy was like “You definitely don’t know what’s going on ( and kept this laughing emoji)

Throughout that day I was trying to wrap my head what that guy said , Even had to ask my partner if he has any issue with the guy because I felt somehow that day

Anyway, I can’t wait to marry that man and say it on my speech 😂

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Osas's avatar

Invite me to the wedding please 🤲🏽

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Abbie's avatar

I will 😂😂

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Oyindamola's avatar

People tend to project their insecurities and shortcomings on other people and it really sucks ! They always forget that owners of Twitter accounts are actually real people with feelings and it’s quite insensitive! It will not end in tears ! It hasn’t ended in tears ! Happy Birthday to senior Man in advance!

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Osas's avatar

I just know that they think all of us are robots and are made to take everything standing

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Ella❤️'s avatar

Lol funny how people who write that shii are the ones who ain’t happy

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Ogochukwu's avatar

In as much as nothing lasts forever in this life, happy endings exists too and i wish we are experience happy endings if we ever have to part with the people or things we love ❤

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Osas's avatar

Happy endings really don’t have to be at the point of death, I need people to realize.

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Oyinkansola's avatar

The part where you said people have been conditioned to look forward to things ending horribly and when it goes right we start to question ourselves. That’s exactly what I did for the first 3 months of my current relationship. I was always asking myself what did I do to deserve this, what am I doing now that I wasn’t doing before

I was always overthinking and it was so unhealthy

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Osas's avatar

At the third month of my relationship, I was annoyed that we were still together because I didn’t want any breakfast to catch me by surprise

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Annie's avatar

"Every step I took after that was calculated to ensure that nothing ended in tears." Energy!!!!!!!!!!🙇🏾‍♀

It's sad that we have this kind of people around.

It's also easy for one to say they don't care about the opinions of other people but it actually does weigh one down at times.

But then again,there's always a good side to everything...the comment made you do better than you were already doing in the relationship and I love that.❤

I loveee to see pictures of you guys please😂🤲🏾...it's not ending in tears IJN!

Thanks for sharing ma'am.

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Osas's avatar

Your words💜

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Chiddy_baby's avatar

I'm always scared to post my man because of this, 😅😭

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Chiddy_baby's avatar

Osas baby ❤️❤️❤️

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Mercy Kennedy's avatar

“If it makes you happy,it doesn’t have to make sense to others” ❤️

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Zams's avatar

that statement is top three worst things that happened to the internet. Heavy bitterness vibes. I remember people telling me that at the beginning of my previous relationship because I was always posting my partner. It ended and they came back to remind me. Is that not madness? Anyways, they’re not ready because I’m going to post the next person as well because I’m the one paying my phone bill.

Meanwhile, I’m glad you realized quickly that their words and false expectations are not your own reality, just mere projections.

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Jemima's Newsletter's avatar

This is Fab!

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Yosoreoluwa's avatar

I also love your trademark "doing this twenties thing unguided".

Anddd, I want to start living in the moment, I've said no to many people because I'm scared of it ending 😩

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Osas's avatar

Thank you love.

In all honesty; thinking about the past and the future without thinking of the present will only steal our joy. This doesn’t mean we shouldn’t have plans for our future though.

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_olamideeeee's avatar

Carry on Osas. Nothing dey end in tears for here.

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Osas's avatar

Energyyyy

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Shades's avatar

Love this , we should enjoy whatever we have while it last leave the future and past alone

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Osas's avatar

Exactly

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Aderonke's avatar

Beautiful piece

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Osas's avatar

Thank you love

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